1. Instead of saying “you’re not doing this right” maybe I’d say, “I see where you’re going with this. Maybe if you adjust in this way you’ll find the opening/stretch this pose offers”
2. Instead of saying, “don’t forget to breathe” maybe I’d say, “breathe,” or “keeping in mind the breath in every movement and posture,” or “if you find you’re holding your breath, bring your mind back to your breath and allow it to be a part of this pose.”
3. Instead of saying, “don’t let your knee extend past your toes” maybe I’d say, “take care of your alignment, being sure your knee is over your ankle. This will protect your knees so notice this with care.”
4. Instead of saying, “don’t worry about everyone else” maybe I’d say, “notice how this feels in your body,” or “everyone will look and feel different in every point of a practice so there may not be a value in comparing your pose with anyone else’s,” or “in this time you’ve set aside for your practice, it is of great value to turn inward. If you notice you’re comparing yourself to others, that’s ok, but bring yourself back inward so you receive the full benefit of today’s practice.”
Forgive me if this is a repeated post, I wrote and then lost it somehow…
I enjoy classes led by warm and welcoming instructors who ask my name and acknowledge all the people individually. I’ll hopefully remember to offer modifications constantly so each part of the practice is available comfortably for all participants. I think music at the right volume is so helpful but that is subjective so I’ll do my best with music knowing it won’t be just right for all participants. I also will make space for everyone. Literally and figuratively. Literally because I am most often just on time and not early so I know the feeling of having to find space. Often the goodwill of others prevails but sometime I would like help from the teacher in finding space. I’ll be sensitive to that with students. Figuratively I’ll help others find space by leading them through a practice, reminding them at intervals to turn inward and notice their experience.